Today’s topic is a dangerous one and I mention it with much hesitancy. It’s a new tradition that is rising among brides and one that I think the quicker we get rid of it, the smoother wedding days will be. The tradition I’m talking about is… (Drumroll)

Brides on cellphones.

That’s right. That little device that we all own and love called our phone. First off. It takes an addict to spot one, and I can assure you Danielle and I BOTH feel lost without our phones. When the iPhone first came out a few years ago, I got one right away.  Danielle’s plan was to “wait” and see if she liked mine. 1 week later, she had one too. :) Phones today are great. We can get txt messages, photos, update our twitter/facebook status, and I think some even make phone calls. I however, would make the argument that every single person you would want or need to communicate with on your wedding day should be within 10 feet of you. I mean really, think about it. It’s one of those rare moments when all of the most important and closest people in your lives are in one building. Your college roommate, your sister, your friend that you have been close with since the 3rd grade; they are all right there.

But wait, you say, how will my cousin get directions to the venue?

Who will remind my brother to grab the rings from the hotel?

What if my mother needs to ask me a last minute question about where to put the programs?

The great thing about ALL of these questions is that YOU don’t have to answer them.
This is where a planner, bridesmaid, or Secretary of Communications can step in.
(I just invented a new title you can give a friend. If I see that in your wedding program, I’ll give you $100 cash on your wedding day.)

Really though, get a phone screener. I have no problem with you sending a sweet txt messages to your groom or talking to your grandmother who could not make it to the wedding. Those are ways your phone can enhance your wedding day. Too many times though I’ve seen a bride get frustrated with the person on the other end of the line. They are asking questions they should already know that answer to, or talking to the bride when there are 15 other people who would know the answer to the question. (directions, times, locations)

Technology is supposed to make our life easier, less stressful. So, on your wedding day, get a call screener. Pick someone you trust and give them your phone. They can field all incoming calls and only pass them on to you if you WANT to take it.

It’s YOUR day. Not theirs.

And finally, just to show I’m not all mean and grouchy, here are some photos of brides having enjoyable conversations on their phone.

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Happy Tuesday everyone. Today’s post is “slightly” off topic. It’s not wedding related, and it’s not related to my family. “What else could there possibly be?”, you ask yourself? Design! That’s right. One thing I have found is that many of my couples are into design. Some are graphic designers, some photographers, some interior designers. (Can’t wait to meet you and do your session, Heather!) So, I thought I would share one of my new found favorite sites to visit.

We all stare at computers anywhere from 3-10 hours a day. Why not make that desktop wallpaper a bit more interesting? Here is a great site that has some deliciously clean and stylish images. Sometimes I’ll let the kids come in and pick one and that’s what I use for the day. (Sara leans heavily towards the pink one and stuck me with this one day.) Other times I’ll take a 5 minute break from editing just to look them all over again and pick something that “fits” my mood. (This is my current one.)

So, ladies and gentlemen of the internet, I give you, Simple Desktops.

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Hey just a quick heads up for all you bride-ly brides out there. There is going to be a bridal show at the Cain Center in Athens, TX this coming Saturday.

The show is running from 11:00AM – 3:00PM. I hear a really really talented photographer is going to be there. :)

I’m not sure who all the vendors will be, but I do know that CMB Music & Elmwood Gardens will be there. Weddings A to Z will also be doing a fashion show.

So, roll out of bed, head up to the show and say hello. Admission is $2.00 per person so you really have no excuse for not going. I mean really, this is East Texas, what else is there to do. :)

For more info call 903.677.2001.

See you there.

AlexM

So, this may come as a surprise to some of you, but way back in the day, (2008-ish) I used to be a wedding videographer. I still love wedding videos. When my sister-in-law’s husband told me he was surprising her by doing a fake vow renewal at the church they were married in 3 years ago, I was giddy. See, I filmed their 1st wedding back on January 13, 2007, so the chance to pull out a camera and shoot some video at a “ceremony” was too good to pass up. I was just planning on giving them the footage I shot, but then the video editing bug bit me and I whipped this together.

Three Quick words of warning.

1. Our oldest two kids were in the original wedding so they got to play a part again. (Just ignore their attire.)

2. I was manually focusing while holding a child for most of this footage so cut me some slack.

3. Colette is about 5 months pregnant in the renewal footage vs the -14 months pregnant she was on her wedding day. :)

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It’s been awhile since I wrote about albums, so what better time than the present. :) Erin & Chris’ wedding was off the chi-zane, so I figured it would be a great one to share. (I’ll also post some images once the physical album comes in.)

Here is how the album process typically works. 2-3 weeks after your wedding, I’ll e-mail you a mock up of your album. (Like what you see below.) You’ll then go over it, and approve it, or swap a few images out. Then, once we have a final version, I send it to my album company and they start building your album. 4-6 weeks later you have your album in hand. :) That’s right… 2 months after your wedding, you’ll have an album. :) I’m sure you have talked to or heard from brides who close to a year from their wedding are still in the “album process.” My goal is to get you your album as quickly as possible. Anyway, here is Erin & Chris’ album pre-design. Enjoy.
















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