My favorites from Kim & Chris’ Mug Machine.  (Get you Mug on at your wedding.)

Ten Miles Deep.

It would be impossible for me to have had more fun at this wedding.  Kim & Chris were TOTALLY laid back.  The day was perfect.

Give it up for Ramage Farms.  A perfect little wedding venue in Texarkana.

Give it up for Kim’s mom.  She added all the lace and feathers to the dress.

Give it up for Chris not skimping on the rings.Give it up for the frog collecting fingerprints.
Give it up for Kim heading out for her First Look.

Give it up for couples who cry during their First Look.

Give it up for the flowers.

Give it up for babies dressed in tuxedos.

Give it up for Mason Jars for the bride & groom to toast with.

Give it up for mexican food at wedding receptions.

Give it up for MORE awesome photos of Kim & Chris.

Give it up for the first dance with music by Ten Miles Deep.  (Book them ASAP.)

Give it up for leaving on a buggy.

Give it up for sweating like a pig at your own wedding because you danced that hard.

You guys had a killer wedding.  Thanks for letting me be there.  (Mug Machine photos coming later this week!)

A few of my favorites from June of last year.  These were some fun sessions.  (Happy anniversaries to Jessica, Brynne, Brandy, Amanda, Gina, & Megan… as well as your husbands.)

Today is a super fun posts for all you brides to be out there.  I know you are all looking for cool things to put in your hair.  I even did a post about this a little while back. (Click here to see my thoughts on it.)

Today I wanted to give a HUGE shout out to HOUSEofLOVELY.  Lauren is the mastermind behind everything there and she is based out of Dallas.  Her work is fantastic and it’s just the type of thing I know my brides would love.  Take a look at some of her work.

She has plenty more on her Etsy site and even has started doing some flower girl designs. :)

This is the coolest part.  Because she is so cool, and because you are so cool, and because I am so cool she is hooking you all up with a discount code!

Enter the code “alexmphoto” to get 15% off anything at HOUSEofLOVELY!!!  Not bad eh?  She’ll even let you pick it up locally so you can save a bit on shipping!
You can put all that money you are saving towards something else. (Like upgrading you SuperSquare size. :)

Today is our 9th anniversary.  Rather than reflect on all the good times we have had over the years, I thought I would take a different approach and fill you in on all the things Danielle & I did wrong on our wedding day.

1. Kept Moving The Date Up: The more we “planned” the wedding the less fun it became.  Rather than drag the whole process out for 36 months we decided to get it on the calendar and get it done.

2. No Bride/Groom Side: We liked everyone there and let them all sit wherever they wanted.

3. No “Here Comes The Bride”: Danielle didn’t walk down to that song.  (We went with How Beautiful instead.)

4. No unity candle/ sand: We wanted to be united, but just didn’t want a candle or sand.

5. Uneven  number of bridesmaids & groomsmen: One of my friends could not make it. Rather than just add a fill in to “make it even,” we left it odd.

6. No garder/bouquet toss: Many of the single people at the wedding still found a way to get married.

7. Didn’t cut or look at my cake: I had one, we just forgot to go over there.

8. Didn’t leave for our honeymoon right away: Our friends were starting a church that night.  We wanted to be there.

9. I’m sure I left something out: Seriously, I have no idea, but I’m sure we did or did not do something at our wedding that someone may or may not have taken offense to. (It will happen at your’s too.)

Now this list may seem silly, petty, or not even a big deal, but in the course of planning a wedding THOSE are the things that turn into big deals.

Every.
Single.
Detail.
Gets.
Analyzed.
(over & over)

The reality is many of those details just are not important at all.  My advice to you as a crotchety, old man who has been married all of 9 years is this:

Plan your wedding YOUR way.  Do what you want.  Tell everyone else to take a hike.

P.S.  Happy Anniversary Wifers.  I love you.